Why do emotionally intelligent women still lose themselves in love? In this episode, I unpack how self-abandonment happens in relationships - not all at once, but in subtle moments where you override what you already know and feel. We explore love identity, emotional inconsistency, and why awareness alone doesn’t always stop painful relationship patterns from repeating. If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing, overthinking, or staying in something that doesn’t truly meet you, this episode is for you.
In this episode, I’m talking about one of the most common relationship patterns I see in emotionally intelligent women: losing yourself in love.
Not dramatically. Not overnight.
But slowly, in the small moments where you override your intuition, ignore what feels off, and start making someone else your emotional reference point.
Inside this episode:
• how self-abandonment quietly happens in relationships
• why overthinking and uncertainty become so consuming
• what your love identity actually is
• why you keep repeating painful relationship patterns
• the shift that changes everything
If you’re recognising yourself in this episode, and you’re ready to become the version of yourself who naturally creates healthy, deeply reciprocal love, book a discovery call here https://calendly.com/emilyblessington/30-minute-discovery-call